RF.. means Red Flag... Red Flag means he's with his girl...
means... no text, no call... no communication.
That's one of the roles of a kept-woman.
Kept-woman, aka panakip-butas, the mistress, the number 2, the kerida.
bestfriends, best buddies that's what they call their relationship upfront..
... and making love, nah, sex is just a bonus in their relationship.
RIDICULOUS? yes it is.
But is the girl happy? She may be, who knows? but she's not really, really happy...
She can't get jealous coz she doesn't have the right to.
You just get jealous because you're protecting something that belongs to you.
But the guy doesn't belong to her, he was borrowed.
And when the time comes, she needs to return him to the real owner.
but who's to be blamed?
It may leave a bitter taste in someone's mouth hearing the word kept-woman,
but does she care?
She actually do!
She stands by her decision that whatever makes her happy, she'll go for it.
It's not the other people who breath for her, who gave her food to eat, who dressed her up... She's the one living her life.
So, she's pretending she doesn't care if this doesn't look good or doesnt sound nice to you. She just wants to be happy.
What their significant others don't know won't hurt them....
And life is too short to be wasted.
She just doesn't want to regret someday...
She just doesn't want to waste her time that someday she would ask herself 'what if' and to tell herself 'if only....'
Life's too short, so she's enjoying it.
Being number 2 means you're the best... you're the one who completes the emptiness of a relationship.
It's ok to be the kept-woman, the #2, the mistress, the kerida... but make it sure that there's no one else aside from you..
no #3, no other kept-woman, no other mistress, no other kerida.....