Seduction is an art like poetry or dance. Its intent is to make a person feel unsatisfied--unsatisfied until he can have you.
Seduction works on the brain. It's the art of making a guy fall in love with you against his will. If he is attracted to you at first, that doesn't count as a seduction and you need more practice.
A successful seduction does not necessarily end in the bedroom. If work, a girlfriend, a wife or family get in the way, a love affair can be maintained beneath the radar and without much contact. A faithful boyfriend or husband may need to ignore you to resist the temptation you present.
Wear clothing which makes you feel and look sexy. Enhance your cleavage with a well-fitting bra, learn to put on makeup in the way that is most suitable to your features, and show skin.
Always pay a good deal less attention to your target than he pays to you. For every three times you feel him glance at you, glance at him once. If he has not noticed you, do not visibly notice him. However, when your eyes meet, do not be the first to look away. This will give you seductive power.
Don't be afraid to point out your target's weaknesses, ignore your target, or cancel a date IF your target is definitely interested in you. This will augment the interest to intrigue.
When you sit, cross your legs and never rest your back on the seat.
Balance out your masculine features with feminine ones. Your overall look should be 50-100% feminine. If you have small breasts and less curves, if you are tall or if you are not so pretty, wear a thin dress that shows lots of skin, wear makeup, and wear your hair long (e.g. Maria Sharapova). If you naturally look pretty and feminine, you have the option of cutting your hair short, wearing denim, or going out with less makeup (e.g. Halle Berry). Also make sure your personality is 50-100% feminine.
Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do this about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to edge a bit closer he will be running for the nearest exit.
Candlelight and music set the scene for seduction. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel better about undressing in front of him.
Don't agree with everything he says. Have a mind of your own and comment back. It is good to have a different point of view when you converse.
Try different perfumes to find out what men like.
Find things you have in common with him. If he is having troubles in his life, sympathize with him.
The most important thing is to promise your target whatever it is that they are missing. If they have a hot, willing girlfriend, all the cleavage in the world won't help, but chances are she is neglecting him in other areas - maybe she doesn't listen or take care of him (we all know the surest way to a man's heart is his stomach, right?), so you need to offer whatever your competition cannot. Make him feel like a King, like someone important (but never let him walk all over you) and he will always come back for more. This is how you keep your man, too.
Not everyone can be seduced. Men who are secure with themselves and men who are happily in a relationship or married are practically impossible to seduce.
Always make sure a friend knows where you are if you are meeting someone you don't know well.
You do need to know who is in your league. A good rule of thumb is that a powerful seduction can increase your attractiveness about 4 points on a ten point scale.